Trust His Timing

Please welcome guest author, J. Carol Nemeth to my blog today
as she shares about trusting the Lord and her
Faith in the Parks book series.

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As an author who began writing in my teen years, I was confident I would get published early too. After all, my love of writing was every bit as heartfelt and important as any other author’s. Right? No doubt that part was true, but my love of writing certainly didn’t guarantee publication. Far from it. It wasn’t until our second child was born that I actually finished a novel and attempted to gain publication. That journey was fraught with disappointment, rejection and self-reflection. My first novel, Yorkshire Lass, was rejected time and time again, leaving me to wonder if this truly was God’s plan for my life. Or had I stepped out of His will and pushed my plans ahead of His?

I prayed and prayed asking God to lead me, to show me His will concerning my writing. If it’s not Your will for me to continue writing and to pursue publication, then, Dear Lord, please take away this love and desire to write. Well, it never went away, but I prayed for His will to be done as I continued to submit my manuscript. I truly tried to leave it in His capable hands. More rejections followed as well as one publisher who gave me hope. They made suggestions to my manuscript with the idea they might be willing to take it on. They didn’t. Hope again faded as disappointment washed over me. I kept praying, but it seemed God was silent on this issue. Even in the midst of His silence, the fact that my desire to write and to publish my novel should have shown me He hadn’t said no. He was telling me to wait. As most of God’s children often do, I struggled with waiting for His perfect timing.

Our daughter was born in 1990, and I began my novel soon after she was born. Yorkshire Lass was finally published in March of 2016. It took nearly twenty-six years to reach publication. I may never know all the reasons my heavenly Father took me on that disappointment-fraught journey to publication, but He sure taught me some things.

His timing is always perfect, and I must trust His timing. All the details of my life are better left in His hands to work out the proper time for them to happen. Psalm 27:14 tells us, “Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord.”

I also learned that God has our best interests at heart. There’s no doubt He wants what’s best for us. Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.” He wasn’t withholding publication from me because He was angry at me or was being mean. Perhaps He knew because I was home schooling my kids, I wouldn’t be able to juggle both. There are some amazing home school author moms out there who can do both. I might not have been one of them. Whatever His reasons, He chose to wait until 2016 to publish my first novel. Since then we’ve published eight more books. He’s blessed me in ways I never expected.

I recently read a devotional that stated how God moves the universe to accomplish His will in our lives and to answer our prayers. Think about that for a moment. What did He do in the background of your life, that you’ll never know about, to get you where you are today? When I look back over the twenty-six years it took for me to reach publication, I stand in amazement at God’s awesomeness and how He arranged everything to get me to that point. Do I know all the details? Not at all. I do, however, know the God who arranged them and the fact that He gave me the strength to endure until His perfect time came to pass. And that’s all that matters.

Author Bio

A native North Carolinian, J. Carol Nemeth has always loved reading and enjoyed making up stories ever since junior high school, most based in the places she has lived or traveled to. She worked in the National Park Service as a Park Aid and served in the US Army where she was stationed in Italy, traveling to over thirteen countries while there. She met the love of her life, Mark Nemeth, also an Army veteran, while stationed in Italy. After they married, they lived in various locations, including North Yorkshire, England. They now live in West Virginia, where, in her spare time, Carol and her husband enjoy RVing and sightseeing. Carol and Mark are active in their church and enjoy their two grown children, son-in-law, and three grandchildren. Carol has written nine books and one short story anthology. She is a member of ACFW.

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Faith in the Parks Books 1-4 is a contemporary romantic suspense series set in our beautiful national parks, each book set in a different park. The stories are filled with intrigue and suspense intertwined with a thread of romance winding through each story.

Book 1 is set in the Great Smoky Mountains National park in North Carolina while Book 2 takes place in the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona. Book 3 is set at Cape Hatteras National Seashore in North Carolina and Book 4 takes place way up at Denali National Park in Alaska. There will be a fifth book in the series so keep watching. There are also two novellas, Dedication to Love and A Beacon of Love, that are prequels to Mountain of Peril and Ocean of Fear in that order.

Purchase link for series https://www.amazon.com/Faith-Parks-4-Book/dp/B087D4DKBD

Website https://www.jcarolnemeth.com/ Readers can sign up for my newsletter at my website or my Facebook Author page. There’s a complimentary short story download when they do.

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Scripture references are from the King James Version.

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Walking As Jesus Walked

Do you have days when your attitude needs to change? I do. This past week. Then I read these verses about walking as Jesus walked.

But whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in him. By this we know that we are in Him. He who says he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked.

1 John 2:5-6, NKJV

I don’t recall Jesus having a poor attitude.

To me, the above verses say that when we keep God’s word, we are showing our obedience to Him and that we truly know and love Him. Through our obedience, His love is then perfected or made complete in us. If we claim we are His, we ought to walk in the same way that Jesus walked by following His example and living as He did.

How did Jesus walk? What examples did He leave for us to follow?

Here are a few instances of Jesus offering love, acceptance, and forgiveness.

In John 8 we read of the woman caught in adultery. The Pharisees wanted to stone her. Jesus told the crowd that whoever had never sinned could throw the first stone. The Pharisees slipped away, and only Jesus and the woman remained. He didn’t condemn her—He forgave her.

We read the story of the Samaritan woman at Jacob’s well in John 4. Jesus didn’t criticize her for having had five husbands and living with a man who she was not married to. He accepted her and forgave her.

And what better model is there about forgiveness than when Jesus forgave His accusers and killers?

Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.

Luke 23:34, NKJV

Besides offering love, acceptance, and forgiveness, Jesus modeled obedience when He surrendered Himself to God’s will. After the Last Supper, Jesus prayed this on the Mount of Olives:

Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from Me;
nevertheless not My will, but Yours, be done.

Luke 22:42, NKJV

His time of arrest, suffering, and death soon followed.

Jesus modeled servanthood in John 13 when he washed his disciples’ feet and when he carried out the ultimate sacrifice—His death on the cross.

Jesus also met the needs of others by sharing God’s truths, calming the storm, and feeding the hungry.

Am I called to do any less?

Will it be easy? No. But so worth it!

Lord, I desire to keep your word and walk as you walked—in love, acceptance, forgiveness, obedience, surrender, servanthood, and by meeting the needs of others. Guide my steps, Lord. I desire to always abide in You.


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Leaving a Legacy

My parents were outstanding examples of two people in love with the Lord. They became active in their church and served together for 30 years until their health gave out. They left our family the legacy of their personal commitment and faithful service to the Lord.

Their devotion to the Lord came later in life. I grew up attending church on a not-so-regular basis. If my memory is correct, the church taught that if you became a member and took communion twice a year, you would go to heaven. Our family did the minimum; we wanted to make it into heaven. Unfortunately, our church was lifeless. My heart ached for more.

My mom, too, longed for more. She’d watch Billy Graham Crusades on television and share with me what she learned. We both decided we needed to search for the truth. We started attending a small church in our neighborhood. Friendly people welcomed us, and services were lively. We heard about accepting the Lord into our hearts and lives and developing a relationship with Him. We found Christ!

A year later, my dad accepted the Lord into his life. Our motto changed from, “Let’s just get into heaven” to, “What else can we do for our Lord?” My parents and I became involved and supported the church with our finances.

Years later, after moving 500 miles away, my husband and I stayed in my parents’ home when we visited. Their faithfulness touched my heart as I’d listen to them pray at their kitchen table and call out the names of their children, grandchildren, and former foster children to the Lord. They asked God to take care of their family and draw them close to Him.

I, too, wish to leave a legacy for my children and grandchildren. I want others to remember me as a person of faith who walked in the Spirit of Christ; a woman who loved the Lord with all her heart and found joy in worshipping Him and bringing Him glory; and a follower of Christ who loved her family, prayed for them and others daily, and believed God would move on their behalf with blessing upon blessing.

Who inspired you? A relative, pastor, Bible teacher, or someone else? What legacy are you hoping to leave?

But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Matthew 6:20-21, ESV


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Images of Heaven

How often do you think about heaven? On recent hikes, I’ve noticed several creatures and their habits. Birds flitter away when we approach their resting branch. Lizards scurry, beavers dive, and coyotes slink into the brush. How will these animals interact with us in heaven?

On my walk one morning, I imagined birds remaining on their perches nearby and entertaining me with their songs. Lizards running alongside of me instead of hiding in the grass. Beavers standing on their hind legs and waving their front paws. And coyotes with their tails wagging while waiting for a rub behind their ears.

Besides the animals, I envisioned plush green meadows overflowing with flowers of various colors. Tall stately trees with no broken limbs cluttering my way. Peace and contentment no matter which path I take, and although there are animals aplenty, no stepping into dog or horse poop.

My husband and I sometimes hear church bells on our hikes ringing Amazing Grace. That adds to my excitement for heaven. Worshipping the Lord wherever we are. Beautiful music and singing all around us.

I imagine heaven will be a haven of beauty and filled with a sense of calm. There will be a peaceful river meandering through it along with overflowing waterfalls. Lots of waterfalls.

And the people there? We’ll enjoy a grand family reunion with believers from every time period and every nation as we celebrate our Messiah together as one body. We will see our Lord and worship Him.

Dear friends, now we are children of God,
and what we will be has not yet been made known.
But we know that when Christ appears,
we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.
1 John 3:2, NIV

I don’t know how much of what I’ve written is biblical, but I love to imagine what life will be like in heaven. A few things I believe, based upon scripture, are the creation of a new heaven and new earth as found in Revelation 21 and 22. And in 2 Peter 3:13, we’re told this will be a place where righteousness dwells. The presence of God will be our light.

Walls of jasper will surround us, and we’ll walk on streets of gold. We’ll experience a river with the water of life as clear as crystal and the tree of life with various fruits. Does that sound like the Garden of Eden to you—an oasis of exceeding beauty?

The wolf and the lamb will feed together,
and the lion will eat straw like the ox,
and dust will be the serpent’s food.

Isaiah 65:25, NIV

Perhaps that means I’ll meet a tail-wagging coyote desiring a rub behind his ear. And if a beaver waves at me, I plan to wave back!

But the best moments will be our times of rejoicing as we worship the King of Kings and Lord of Lords—Christ Jesus.

What are your thoughts about heaven?


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